In this section of reading, we once again encounter
numerous instances of family roles that the reader is able to relate
to.
Primarily, we're faced with the issue of repentance.
Although most of us have never committed an action like that of Mr.
Rochester, we understand the feeling of having made a mistake either
with family or friends. Mr. Rochester tries to justify his actions
by seeking consolation in others. Last week, my bible study was
discussing Chapter 3 of Galatians. As we read, "I would like to
learn just one thing from you: Did you receive the Spirit by
observing the law, or by believing what you heard? Are you so
foolish? After beginning with the Spirit, are you now trying to
attain your goal by human effort? Have you suffered so much for
nothing if it really was for nothing? Does God give you his Spirit
and work miracles among you because you observe the law, or because
you believe what you heard," we questioned the root causes of many
of our sins (Galatians 3:2-5). While it's easy to say, "please
forgive me for gossiping," it's more difficult to admit "I lack
self-confidence" or whatever causes your gossiping. Similarly, when
questioning our direction or our faith in turning that direction
over to God, we ask for justification in others. We hear it all
around us. "What should I do this summer?" "Wouldn't you be mad at
your brother if he did that?" "Don't you think it's okay if I cheat
because I have so much work?" We seek justification in those around
us instead of turning to God. Similarly, Mr. Rochester plays the
role of a dysfunctional family member committing the same action by
posing the hypothetical scenario to Jane who responds "Sir. a
wanderer's repose or a sinner's reformation should never depend on a
fellow-creature. Men and women die; philosophers falter in wisdom;
and Christians in goodness; if any one you know has sufferer or
erred, let him look higher than is equals for strength to amend, and
solace to heal" (257). In the same way that self-conscience may be
the cause of gossiping, what's the cause of Mr. Rochester's
dependence?
Similarly, most of us can relate to the feeling of Jane
when she explains "And was Mr. Rochester now ugly in my eyes? No,
reader, Gratitude, and many associations, all pleasurable and
genial, made his face the object I best liked to see" (175). We
have all met people who we disliked at first, either for reasons
based on their physical appearance or their personality. And, after
a while, we change our opinions of those people. For Jane,
"Gratitude, and many associations" changed her opinion of Mr.
Rochester. What changes our opinions?