Throughout my life I have desired to gain increasing amounts of knowledge and understanding to form a person I imagined would be poised and intelligent, well-rounded in many subjects, and able to take care of themselves with a certain amount of grace and apparent ease. I believed that college would spark this personal transformation, that somehow overnight I would grow from the scatterbrained, clumsy person I’ve been my entire life into someone who suddenly knows how the world works, someone who can connect all aspects of their life and see the big picture of everything. I dreamed of attending an austere ivy league in the North, becoming politically and socially involved in issues that I would suddenly find inspiring; I would be a picture of youth taking charge in society. Without any real knowledge of these institutions or lifestyles, I somehow assumed, as Jude does, that “‘It would just suit me’” (Bump 653).
However, as the
time approached to apply to these prestigious schools approached, I found
myself questioning these dreams, these images I had of my future self that I
knew was nothing like the person I truly am. This introspection led me to the