Megan Mehl

11/28/06

 

 
P2A: Leadership Vision

Now that I am away at college and virtually alone in the world, I realize that I am the only person who is responsible for making my dreams come true.  To do this, I must be a leader for the benefit of myself and others.  It is important that I take the initiative to put myself on the path to achieving my goals, but at the same time, I must not forget about my passion for others.  Therefore, many of my goals center around becoming a role model to others and helping others.  I realize that my past has determined who I am and has given me some clues as to what I hope to achieve in my life.

Text Box: My sister and me2One of the biggest influences on who I am today has been my family.  My family is a very important part of my life and I do not know what I would do without them.  I am certain that my passion for people arose because of the love that I have received from my parents and sister.  They have always been so supportive of me and have helped me through many difficult times. Text Box: My family and me at my graduation1 I feel as if it is up to me to be all that I can in order to make my parents proud.  They always seem to know what I am capable of, even if I do not.  Though they have never pressured or pushed me in any way, I always wish to please them.  I know they would be extremely happy for me if I were able to serve as a leader and accomplish my goals. I hope to one day offer my children the same strong love that I have received from my parents.  I also feel a strong desire to serve as a role model for my younger sister, Kayla.  Kayla and I have recently become much closer, and I now see that over the years, we have formed a strong relationship.  This past summer before I left for school, she told me something very special.  She revealed to me, upon my solemn promise not to tell my mother, that she loves me more than anyone else in the world.  I was shocked—after our almost incessant fighting while growing up, I never would have believed that she could care so much about me.  I consider this knowledge the most wonderful gift I have ever received.  As a result, I made a personal vow never to disappoint her or serve as a bad example.  Though I have not always been the best daughter or sister, I certainly strive to be.  After moving away from my family, I have come to realize just how much they mean to me.  My desire to make my family proud and repay them for everything they have given me is one of the driving factors in my goal to be a leader in Text Box: Picking up trash at Gift to the River3the future. 

Text Box: Decorating my high school for Christmas4I have been fortunate enough in my past to have had several opportunities in leadership training that further shaped my goals for the future.  In high school, I took on a role as a leader in the many service-based clubs with which I was involved.  Working toward positive goals, I learned a great deal about myself and others.  To tell the truth, it was not always fun cleaning up trash or working at school functions, but I feel as if my contributions really made a difference in my school and the community. In the end, the knowledge that I have helped someone is worth more than payment I could have received for my work. I think it is important for each of us to volunteer and make donations in order to help one another out.  Everyone has the opportunity to serve as a leader by giving their time.  Contributing to a good cause earns respect and admiration from others, and helps inspire them to follow the good example.  I plan to continue my service contributions here at UT by helping out with my sorority’s philanthropy projects to benefit the Ronald McDonald House.  I will never forget the way in which my high school involvement opened my eyes to this amazing form of leadership.

Text Box: Senior Exec. opening for the Talent Show6Text Box: The Senior Bonfire5My experiences in student government organizations in high school have also given me some leadership training.  I really enjoyed having a say in some of the most important decisions being made at my school. The way I see it, one can not complain about the circumstances if he or she does not make an effort to change them.  I hope to become involved in a student organization at UT that can make a difference on campus by addressing the concerns of the student body.  Another aspect of my high school organizations that I enjoyed was being put in charge of planning and organizing events.  It is absolutely empowering to put on a production: the moment when all the planning and work come together in the final product creates an incredible sensation that cannot be described in words.  It is extremely rewarding to serve as a leader in a way in which you can directly see the fruits of labor.  My love for being in charge and executing plans has made me consider career paths that involve organizing events, among many other possibilities.  I feel that it is important to recognize that past experiences can play a very large part in this way in determining long-term goals.

In the long run, my most important goal is to attain the satisfying life that I imagine in my dreams.  In my head, I see myself several years from now.  I have a successful career that I am passionate about and that allows me to interact with many people on a daily basis. I have a wonderful marriage and live a comfortable lifestyle.  I am a role model to others and have amazing relationships with my family and friends.  It sometimes seems as if I will never reach this level because I do not yet know how to go about achieving these aspirations.  I am not sure what my career will be or what I will need to do to get there, and I will certainly not be getting married any time soon.  I realize that it will take a great deal of work to get through school and establish a career for myself; I must accomplish these daunting tasks by taking small steps, where I would prefer to take leaps.

One of these steps that I face in my pursuit of my ambitions is deciding what I want to do about a job.  I feel as if I am not yet equipped to make a choice concerning my career path.  I am currently one of the few students under the unfortunate title “Undeclared.”  Sometimes, I feel pressured to make a decision regarding my future plans because it seems as if everyone else already has their life mapped out.  However, I realize that it is important to take my time in order to make this vital decision. An obvious goal of mine is to decide what I want my major to be and to transfer into the appropriate school.  In order to do this, it is necessary for me to actively explore different career options by taking a variety of different classes that interest me and to look for internship opportunities so that I may make a well-informed decision on what to choose as my major.  I hope to decide to which school I would like to transfer before my sophomore year.  Once I have transferred to my school, I will need to dedicate myself to doing well. John F. Kennedy once said that “leadership and learning are indispensable to each other.”7  Therefore, if I want to accomplish my goals and become a leader, I will need to work very hard to broaden my knowledge in order to be successful.  It is important for me to focus on my studies and make good grades.  I am willing to put all that I have into my schoolwork so that I will be well prepared for my job. 

Though I am not exactly sure what I want to pursue as a career, it is my hope that I will serve as a leader or role model to others in whatever I do.  Even if I do not, I feel that I will have succeeded if I am able to help someone in some way because people are my passion.  As Soren Kierkegaard said, “The conclusions of passion are the only reliable ones.”8 In other words, it is important to listen to your heart over anything else.  Because of my love for people, I do not doubt that whatever I decide to do should involve interacting with people in order to make me happy.  I have had thoughts about opening a small business, perhaps a restaurant or a boutique.  I realize that it is extremely difficult to open a small business and keep it afloat, and that the odds will be against me.  I will need to borrow a great deal of money in order to rent a space, buy supplies, and hire employees.  I will also need to find a loyal customer base and attain a good reputation for my business in order to ensure that I make a steady profit that will cover my expenses and pay back my loan.  Opening a business will entail a great deal of work and stress before my job will get any easier.  However, if running a business is my goal at that point in time, I will do whatever it takes to achieve it. Other areas that interest me are public relations, advertising, and, as I already mentioned, some sort of event planning.  Each of these areas will involve learning a great deal about people.  I know that I can only find happiness in my life and be a leader in the future if I am passionate about my career. 

It is also important for me to embody many qualities that are characteristic of leadership if I hope to be a leader.  These traits include dedication, focus, perseverance, generosity, and strength of character.  Regardless of the shape my future takes, these qualities will allow me to be the best person that I can be and will lead me to my dreams.  For example, I strive to show dedication in all that I do.  In the past, that meant contributing my time to various student organizations and service clubs, as well as swimming and school.  Needless to say, I didn’t have very much spare time on my hands.  I believe that it I very important to stand by what you care about and follow through with your promises.  If all the members of the swim team had not been dedicated, our team would not have done well at Regionals or gone to State.  Similarly, it is important to stay dedicated to one’s schoolwork in order to learn and to make good grades.  I hope to prove to my professors that I am dedicated to my schoolwork in the present and to show others that I am dedicated to my career in the future.  It is also important to show dedication in one’s relationships with family, friends, or their significant other.  Dedication in a relationship means keeping promises, maintaining trust, looking out for one another, and making time for one another.  Without dedication, it would be impossible for one to reach his or her goals or serve as a leader.  Focus and perseverance tie in with dedication because it is important to keep focused on your goal and do whatever it takes to achieve it.  Generosity is another key aspect of leadership because it means showing that you care about others by helping them out.  As I said, I hope to continue helping others through community service throughout my life.  I do not think that a person can be a leader to others unless they care about others.  Strength of character is also very important, because I always strive to be the best person that I can be, as I believe every leader should.  I certainly do not always exhibit these characteristics, but I feel that it is important for me to work toward them at all times.  If nothing else, I would love to leave behind a legacy of leadership through these traits and gain the respect of others. 

In order to be a leader, I must understand what a leader is. According to Harold J. Seymour, “Leaders are the ones who keep faith with the past, keep step with the present, and keep the promise to posterity.”9 It is amazing how much this applies to me.  To be a leader, I need to use what I have learned in the past to work toward accomplishing my goals in the present. I also need to strive to be a leader in the present by staying involved in leadership organizations and by doing my best in school to serve as a role model to my sister.  If I accomplish my goals, I will hopefully be a leader to others in the future.

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7.  Kennedy, John F. http://www.quotationspage.com/quote/3225.html.

 

8.  Kierkegaard, Soren. http://www.josephsoninstitute.org/quotes/quotepassion.htm.

 

9.  Seymour, Harold J. http://www.worldofquotes.com/author/Harold-J.-Seymour/1/index.html.